In my opinion adoption frees people from family curses

Maybe we become what we already are

have heard people talk about repeating the behavior of their parents, even against their will. Yes, they learned by example. But there are those who seem to believe that genes are destiny. We can only become what we already are, our future is immutable, an as yet unrealized potential coiled within like the seed of a poisonous weed.

Maybe we become what we see

Perhaps when we follow in the footsteps of those who came before United States we are literally following. We are watching where we are going and we are doing things that make sense. We marry a man like our father. But not because the guy is really like this but because we see all men this way. We fit people into the molds we have created for them, no matter how hard it is to make them conform. The world makes sense when we turn out exactly the way we expect.

Adoptees are free of negative specific expectations

We don’t have you feel like we are fated to become like our adoptive parents since there are attachments missing. We are not moored to their destiny. Without much knowledge about where we come from we do not gravitate towards certain disaster out of resignation or a misguided attempt to be closer you a parent by being like that parent. We are free to do anything. In a way it is good not to know whee you come from—you can’t get stuck there!

Do family curses exist? Yes, if you believe it

There’s no need to accept the belief system you’re handed by being part of a clan. There is an up side you everything. We adoptees have a head start on striking out on our own.